After our friend Armando passed away in early 2017, I wanted to channel my grief into something meaningful. I imagined a memory garden planted in the parking strip on the south side of our property. I pictured a cottage-type garden crowded with blooming plants and attracting pollinators, especially bees and butterflies.
In the spring and summer of 2017, I planted perennial seeds to grow a volume of plants to set out in the spring of 2018.


In the autumn of 2017, we had a large load of bark delivered. We laid down various weed barriers and then piled about 8″ to 10″ of bark on top of that to kill all the weeds and grass.

HERE is a video showing where all the bark ended up.
I needed to be absolutely sure the grass was dead, so we left the deep bark on all fall/winter of 2017/2018. Mistakenly, I thought the best place to keep the perennial seedlings would be in nursery beds outside, so I planted many of them in the raised vegetable beds.
HERE is a video showing all the little seedlings tucked into their veggie bed winter home.
When I went to dig up the seedlings that were wintered over in the veggie beds, many of them had disappeared. There were still enough to plant about 1/3 of the parking strip, which I got done in spring. The seedlings included columbine, campion, catmint, lupine, licorice mint, coreopsis, oriental poppy, verbena, echinacea, dianthus, and more. I had purchased tiny starts of asters and sedums, as well, and those were planted out in spring. The other purchased plants included peonies, calceolaria, hardy geraniums, and blue-eyed grass. I started planting in March.

We left the bark and covers in place through the fall and winter. Leon helped me with some hardscaping–we put in a little patio for the garbage, recycle and yard waste cans.

By May, the garden looked like THIS and THIS already!
I kept planting seedlings and purchased plants through early summer to get the garden about 1/2 completed. Additions included more campions, columbines, peonies, asters, Santa Barbara daisies, dianthus and a wild rose I grew from seed. Further additions were put off until fall.
HERE is what the garden looked like by September 8th.
In the fall, I planted most of the other perennial seedlings and some other purchased plants, including daylilies, kniphofia, gluacium, asters, thyme, oregano, veronica, rose, abelia, lysimachia and more. I also purchased some tulips, hyacinths, camassias, and corydalis bulbs for the eastern end of the bed.
I’ll just post more photos and videos here showing how the garden has progressed since last fall.
Mosquito plant blooming in September 2018


Hyacinths in March 2019 Waking up in March 2019. The rest of the Garden March 2019
April 2019 Geraniums April 2019 Another view Tulip Antoinette April 2019 Bulbs April 2019 Tulips April 2019 Tulips April 2019 Tulips April 2019 The first Columbine April 2019 Wake up continues.
Geranium pratense May 2019 Glaucium May 2019 Camassia May 2019 Camassia May 2019 Antionette tulip May 2019 Antionette tulip May 2019 Antionette tulip May 2019 Santa Barbara daisies May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Lupine May 2019 Chaenorhinum May 2019 Oriental poppy May 2019 OP May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Catmint May 2019 Catmint May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Geranium May 2019 Geranium May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Columbine May 2019 Antoinette Tulip May 2019 Antoinette tulip May 2019 Tulip 2019 Tulips 2019 Tulips 2019 Tulips 2019 Clover 2019
Kniphofia June 2019 View from the street June 2019 Glaucium June 2019 Glaucium June 2019 Glaucium June 2019 Clover June 2019 Lychnis June 2019 Lychnis June 2019 Feverfew June 2019 Street view June 2019 Street view June 2019 Glaucium June 2019 Dianthus June 2019 Long view June 2019